Chatting to my London escorts friends in a bar the other day, the conversation drifted off towards sex. We started to wonder what makes some people enjoy sex whilst other do not enjoy sex at all. What makes us tick sexually, and what heightens are sexual pleasure?
London escorts are not ladies of the night who go out to have sex. This is a big misunderstanding. Escorts in London are sexy companions, and that doesn’t mean they have a special interest. It is not only London escorts who sit around and talk about sex in bars. Oh no, many other people do as well. However, London escorts and other ladies may talk about sex in a different way. Let’s call it an open and honest discussion.
Sex is just as much of fascination to London escorts as it is to the rest of us. We wonder why some people are really interested in sex, and others are not. What is the psychology behind sex, if there is any, and what makes us enjoy sex? This is such a broad topic with many different answers.
Scientists will tell you that sex is not about psychology at all, it is about physiology. A very good friend of mine who has a PhD from a fancy university, says that sex is all about physiology and has nothing to do with what goes on in the mind. It is pure animal instinct, and instead of emotions and feelings we react to things like smell or what we see.
She claims that the sight of a man’s biceps will turn most women on as it tells our brains that he is strong and masculine. Our brains subsequently make a load of what she calls neuro connections, and decides to release hormones. Apparently, according to her, an orgasm is just a reward for mating as she calls. It releases more hormones that make us feel good.
If that is true, why do we get turn on by porn? A porn movie can stimulate our fantasies, and make us day dream about sex. According to my friend that is down to hormones as well, and they now stimulate our brains to make us think about sex.
But why them are we fascinated by sex? This is according to Annie where the psychology comes. Sex never used to be a taboo subject until we decided that it was. Some wise person came up with the idea that having sex was a bit of an immoral deed, and the activity should be strictly limited. This is what has made sex and porn into such a big issue.
Annie says that when we lived in early human civilizations, sex was not a taboo subject and we had sex in front of others. But when it became taboo, we became more restrained and at the same time more interested. It is like anything else you can’t have, something inside you may want it more.
She has been very honest and upfront about sex, and explained it to my children in a much better way than anybody else. My husband and I blushed, but the kids didn’t, and it was kind of funny in a way. I am a bit disappointed, it has sort of taken all the mystery out of sex for me.